Eulogies & Obituaries

Honoring a Life in Words

Eulogies & Obituaries

Writing a eulogy or obituary is one of the most meaningful ways to honor a loved one. While it can feel daunting, especially during a time of grief, the process of gathering memories and finding the right words can also be a healing experience.

Writing a Eulogy

A eulogy is a speech delivered at a funeral or memorial service that celebrates the life of the person who has passed. It typically lasts 5–10 minutes and is delivered by a family member, close friend, or clergy member.

Structure of a Eulogy

1. Introduction — Introduce yourself and your relationship to the deceased.
2. Life story highlights — Share key moments from their life: childhood, education, career, family.
3. Personal qualities — Describe what made them unique — their personality, values, and passions.
4. Memories and stories — Share one or two specific, meaningful stories that capture who they were.
5. Impact on others — Describe how they touched the lives of those around them.
6. Closing — End with a meaningful quote, poem, or personal farewell.

Tips for Writing a Eulogy

• Write from the heart — authenticity is more important than perfection
• Use specific stories and details rather than general statements
• It's okay to include humor if it reflects the person's personality
• Practice reading it aloud several times before the service
• Have a backup reader in case you become too emotional to continue
• Aim for 5–10 minutes in length

Writing an Obituary

An obituary is a written notice of a death, typically published in a newspaper or online. It serves to inform the community of the death and provide information about the service.

What to Include in an Obituary

• Full name, age, and date of death
• Place of birth and residence
• Survivors (spouse, children, grandchildren, etc.)
• Brief life history (education, career, interests)
• Service details (date, time, location)
• Charitable donation requests (if applicable)

Our team can assist you in writing and publishing the obituary. We work with local newspapers and online memorial platforms to ensure your loved one's obituary reaches the people who matter.