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In Memory of
Raymond Calver
1956
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2024

Obituary of Raymond Calver

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It is with great sadness that Ray’s family announce his passing at Providence Care Hospital on Tuesday, April 23, 2024 at age 67. Loving husband of BJ (Holmes) for 46 years. Proud father of Adam (Marie-Helene), Ryan and Krystal, and cherished grandfather of Penelope. Son of the late Floyd and Phyllis Calver. Dear brother of Wayne (Alice), Rick (Charlotte), Debbie Otis (Mark), Mike (Shannon) and Jeff (Gloria). Fondly remembered by his brothers and sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews and many friends.

 

Cremation has taken place. The family will receive friends at Harrowsmith Free Methodist Church (3876 Harrowsmith Road, Harrowsmith) on Friday, May 3, 2024 from 6-8 pm and on Saturday, May 4, 2024 from 10-11 am. Funeral service will follow at 11 am. Interment will be held at Harrowsmith Cemetery at a later date.

 

Arrangements entrusted to Payne Funeral Home (178 Main Street, Odessa). Please share your memories and condolences to the family.

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Denise Ross posted a condolence
Sunday, April 28, 2024
My condolences to Raymond’s family. Our family (Larkin’s) grew up beside the Calver family , we have many childhood memories of playing outside , baseball at Dopking park.
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Friday, April 26, 2024
We are deeply sorry for your loss ~ the staff at Paul G. Payne Funeral Home
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Bill Crowe posted a condolence
Saturday, April 27, 2024
A really great gentleman and super wise and trusted financial advisor. So many admired his high priority to be INTERESTED in others. This skill came to Ray so naturally and his impact on his family, co-workers, partners, clients and communities is a significant legacy.
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Adrian and Marlin Martínez posted a condolence
Saturday, April 27, 2024
In Loving Memory of Ramon Calver Ramon Calver, a devoted servant of God, dedicated his life to spreading love and kindness. Through his work in the Dominican Republic, he touched the lives of many, including us and our family, sharing the message of God's love and grace. As a sponsor through the Kingsview Program, Ramon's impact extended far beyond borders, as he embraced each opportunity to uplift and inspire those around him. His legacy of faith, compassion, and unwavering dedication to others will continue to shine brightly. While we mourn the loss of Ramon, we take comfort in knowing that he is now in the presence of the Lord, where there is no more pain or sorrow. His love to the Lord will forever inspire us to live with love, kindness, and faith. Rest in peace, dear Ramon. Your memory will forever be a blessing to us all. With heartfelt condolences, Adrian and Marlin Martinez
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Winnie Herrington posted a condolence
Saturday, April 27, 2024
Rick and Charlotte so sorry to hear of Ray's passing, good fun memories of High School together, bumped into him a few times in "The County" thoughts & prayers to all The Family
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Kathy Richards-Solc posted a condolence
Saturday, April 27, 2024
Dear BJ and family We were so sorry to hear of Rays passing. Rick remembers him as a great guard in basketball. And his cool aviator glasses. He was a great classmate and was taken too young Sending love and sympathy to all of you. Rick and Kathy Solc
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Tammy Leonard posted a condolence
Saturday, April 27, 2024
BJ and family.... We are so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I first met Ray back in the '80s as a work colleague, and he was always a positive, kind gentleman, who possessed a great sense of humour. Later, Peter and I were fortunate to attend several conferences over the years, where we'd have an opportunity to catch up with Ray and BJ. We have fond memories of spending time together during various events and excursions, visiting and exploring new places together. Sending love and prayers your way. Take care. xo Tammy and Peter Leonard
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Vicki Babcock posted a condolence
Sunday, April 28, 2024
So sorry to hear of the loss of your husband and brother Ray. Growing up in the community and going to school in Odessa, you get to know families. Once you move away you lose contact with people, but you never forget your neighbours. Our sincere condolences. Marc and Vicki Babcock (Revelle)❤️
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Darlene Hogan (Wolfreys) posted a condolence
Sunday, April 28, 2024
My sincere condolences to the Calver Familly! Ray and I went to highschool together, he was a great guy!
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Thomas & Ramani posted a condolence
Monday, May 6, 2024
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. We knew Ray for 30+ years and what a remarkable person he was. He was empathic and always wanted to ensure he could relate to our needs in his capacity. He was exceptionally good with us which is why his passing resonates with us so much. He was dearly missed when we first heard of his diagnosis and learned he will not be available to us, but we always asked about him and kept him in our prayers. It is written "When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." With love and prayers, Thomas & Ramani
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Kevin and Sharon Barton posted a condolence
Monday, April 29, 2024
Sincere condolences to the Calver family and colleagues. We always enjoyed our yearly meeting with Ray and at least a half hour was spent chatting about places travelled. Thinking of you all at this difficult time. Kevin and Sharon Barton
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Tara Kainer posted a condolence
Monday, April 29, 2024
I'm very sorry to hear of Ray Calver's passing. My sincere condolences to his family and colleagues. While I knew him only briefly as financial advisor to the Sisters of Providence Motherhouse, he was always willing to meet with me and was unfailingly kind, caring, and thoughtful.
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Ron Gautreau posted a condolence
Monday, April 29, 2024
My wife and I have known Ray for 25 years both as our financial advisor and a friend. I remember for every visit , he would sit in the exact same spot on the couch . We always started the meeting talking at length about our families . Spent the last 6 months exchanging texts with info and jokes . You will be missed my good friend. Ron and Joy
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Dave & Shelley Fisher posted a condolence
Monday, April 29, 2024
Our sincere condolences to BJ and family. We built a wonderful relationship with Say over the years and appreciated his guidance & expertise in our financial planning. Our conversations went from financial to job to family and last but not least travel. When I retired Ray said to me I’ve got you covered with confidence. Thank you Ray you will always be remembered for being an awesome person. Dave & Shelley Fisher
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Les & Elaine Young posted a condolence
Monday, April 29, 2024
Ray was known by his sense of humour and genuine Christian values he applied to everyone, and in every situation. His friends are legion. Floyd & Phyllis might not have expected Ray to arrive first, but as surely as Uncle Reg & Aunt Vera, are happy to start gathering the family together again. We’ll miss a real gentleman. Well done, Ray!
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Sue.Caldwell-Reed posted a condolence
Monday, April 29, 2024
Such a huge loss. Ray was so friendly and easy to be around. B.J.. and Ray went together like the classic peas and carrots. Rays loss is going to hurt for a long time. Holding the family in love and prayers.
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RICK REVELLE posted a condolence
Thursday, May 2, 2024
Great memories of Ray from 60 years ago in Odessa. I am sorry I can't attend the wake. I am in Iceland at the moment.Rick Revelle
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Robyn posted a condolence
Thursday, May 2, 2024
Still can't believe that we ran into Ray and BJ at a restaurant in Florida! We have many fond memories of our meetings together. He was more than just our financial advisor but a family friend. We were especially touched that he made it to my granmom's celebration of life in Brockville. Prayers of comfort for his family. Robyn, Jeremy, Trenten, Tysen, Nixen

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