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In Memory of
Raymond Anthony Koenders
1929
-
2024

Obituary of Raymond Anthony Koenders

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Retired Teacher – Scarborough Board of Education and proud member of the Knights of Columbus.

Passed away peacefully at Kingsdale Chateau with his loving family by his side on Tuesday, September 10, 2024, in his 96th year. Beloved husband of the late Zelma Koenders (née Danby) for 67 years. Dear and loving father of Ellen Patkai (Ron), Patricia Harris (Craig), Maryanne Mercer (Keith), the late James, Valerie Wolfreys (Dan), Mary O’Neil, Theresa Koenders, Michael (Cindy) and John (Kathy). Fondly remembered and deeply loved by his 17 grandchildren and many great grandchildren. Survived by his sister Theresa McLaury (late Roy). Raymond was predeceased by his brothers Harold (late Hazel), Alphonse (late Star) and Walter (Mary). Dear brother-in-law of Verna Carman (Sidney), Elaine Hughson (Wayne), Elva Danby (late Stirling) and the late Eunice Plaskitt (late Bill). Also fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews and their families.

The family will receive friends at Payne Funeral Home, 178 Main St., Odessa on Friday, October 11, 2024 from 11 – 12:15 pm. Mass of Christian Burial will follow at St. Paul The Apostle Parish, 1111 Taylor Kidd Blvd., Kingston at 1 pm. Rite of Committal St. Bartholomew’s Cemetery, Amherst Island. A reception will follow at the Lodge from 4 – 7 pm.

For those desiring, memorial donations to a charity of your choice would be appreciated. Please share your memories and condolences to the family

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Charlene Feraday posted a condolence
Saturday, October 5, 2024
Sincerest condolences on Rays passing. He will be missed dearly. He was a caring generous and kind man. Charlene and David Feraday
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Cindy Browne posted a condolence
Monday, September 23, 2024
Ray was a true gentleman, someone I was proud to call “friend”, and a mentor to all. I met Ray in 1977, when I was hired to teach at Sir William Osler Vocational School in Scarborough. Ray’s specialty was teaching auto, he took me under his wing and mentored me through my first year of teaching. His patience seemed endless, and the students loved “Mr. Koenders.” Ray often would fix my car, and I have pleasant memories of sailing in his sailboat on Lake Ontario. When Ray retired and moved to Amherst Island, the invitation to visit was appreciated and many happy summers were spent on the island with him, Zelma, Val and her family. Ray’s compassion, humble loving nature, big smile and big hugs will be missed by all. He was a true example of how we should live our lives. Ray’s life was a Blessing, and his memory will be treasured. Rest in Peace, Ray….you will never be forgotten.
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Betty Faye LeRiche posted a condolence
Monday, September 16, 2024
My condolences. Ray was the tech director at Sir Willian Osler Vocational school when I first went there to teach sewing . He was very helpful in ideas for working with special students . I eventually became a tech director there and head of cooperative education . His contribution to education , teacher development and to student’s achievement is a lasting legacy . Betty Faye LeRiche
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Sunday, September 15, 2024
Such a beautiful person, and we blessed to have known .R.I.P Gentle sole Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Joanne Waller posted a condolence
Saturday, September 14, 2024
It is wish much sadness that we say goodbye to such a wonderful caring man. We will miss Uncle Rays laugh, intelligent conversations and smile. Family was everything to Uncle Ray and Aunt Zelma, who raised their family with love. Deepest condolences to an amazing family, love you all. Al, Joanne and Aunt Elva. XO
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Thursday, September 12, 2024
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Garry Shular posted a condolence
Thursday, September 12, 2024
So sorry for your lost, with deepest thoughts to all of you, Garry Shular.

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